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So, your marriage
is in trouble and you want to save it. No
problem, it is possible, but it is not an easy job.
There are 2
basics that you must provide if you want to succeed, everything else is a technique.
It takes
two to tango.
You both are
equally responsible for everything good and bad in you marriage.
Where
there's a will, there's a way.
You both must be absolutely
sure that you want to save this marriage.
These
are few simple steps:
You
need to agree not to fight or argue for 5 days.
Each
of you writes down 5 things you don’t like about your spouse that you want
them to change. You exchange these lists.
Each
of you writes down 5 things you like about your spouse, and keep this list.
Each
morning you make yourself work to change one thing from your spouse’s list,
and compliment them on one thing from your list.
After
5 days you discuss this experience. If it helps continue, if not you need professional help.
Make
an effort to make it work.
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